Set the Bar High for Quick, Cheerful, Obedient Responses from your ChildrenArguing and claiming it isn't fair needs to never win or again you are creating a response you are sure to get tired of. Then you might become impatient or angry. Prevent that by holding firm to what you have asked them to do.
What's in it for me? Stay away from bribes of all kinds. Try to never start a request with,"If you do this then...," You have authority and you do not need to barter.